http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl - Ask! Advice :: LankaLove.com en-us Ask! Advice :: LankaLove.com Fri, 18 May 2012 11:31:40 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss 30 http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1336920607/0#0 Ask! Advice :: LankaLove.com/Ask! Advice http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1336920607/0#0 HI,<br /><br /><br />2 and half years back my girlfriend was in a long distance relationship with an other guy and they used to have lot of arguments and fights and at that time I started becoming closer to her and then proposed her. She had brokenup with that guy and later took 4 months to accept my proposal. I had a very bad previous relationship aswell and I had not told her about it, unfortunately she came to know about that when she heard me speaking to my ex. we had a very big fight and she wanted to breakup right away, and after convincing her so much she stayed in the relationship and after few months everything was fine and she moved in with me.<br /><br />We used to have very good time with eachother and enjoy each others company very much and I told my parents about her and they agreed. From last one year I had told her that I had stopped smoking and everytime she asked me i said the same but one day she found out that i smoke and there after she gave me many chances but still i could not stop smoking and drinking. Everytime she kept giving me more chances but i failed to keep up my promise of not smoking. Later we started having few problems and I used to get very angry. <br /><br />In Jan this year she went to India for holidays and there she spoke to her ex boyfriend few times and there all the bigger problems started. she sent me a mail saying she does not love me and want to breakup with me. when she came back somehow i convinced her to give me last chance and see if i change. She also had promised me that she will not get in touch with her ex but i caught her mailing and speaking 2 or 3 times. last week sunday i went out to a pub with my friends and was little pissed and when i came home had a fight and monday she has moved out of the house with out telling me. I dont know if she is in a relationship with her ex now but she says she does not want to give me anymore chances.<br /><br />I really love her very much and cannot live without her and i am realising my mistakes now when she has moved from here. I want to correct my mistakes and im begging her for 1 last chance to prove that i can change but she says that I can never change. We still talk and she still cares for me and sometimes i feel she loves me but again im in a dilema if she loves me or her ex. she says that she has not spoken to her ex in a month now. please help me and tell me what to do to get her back to me now. I had gone to an extent to kill myself because her love her and miss her very much. Now she is very upset on me and says she does not want to even speak to me and says she will change her number. I really lover her and want my love back in my life.<br /><br />Please help me .<br /><br />Thank you http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1336658998/0#0 Ask! Advice :: LankaLove.com/Ask! 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Advice http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1333136815/0#0 i went out with this boy who i fell in love with. one time though my mom was talking to my older brother on how i would always talk to him through the phone texting him and calling him late in night. my brother then talked to me and he asked about him.he asked if he was my boyfriend and i obviously said no. he then yelled at me and told me stop talking to him. i was so intimidated by him that i did stop talking to him completely. then this other guy comes to the picture and he likes me but i don't like him like that but he asks me out 5 times and finally agree but out of pity, it took me weeks to break up with him b cuz he was such a sensitive guy but eventually i did. i then start my 10th grade year and the guy i fell in love with attends the same school but i already heard he had a new girlfriend and i didn't really see the point in talking to him about why i had disappeared all of a suddenly. i don't talk to him at all, even though i really want to him about what happened but im afraid. i feel like its too late b cuz im now in 11th grade and he is in 12th grade and the year is almost up. i can't bear this guilt that i have, i don't know where to find the courage to talk to him because in afraid of rejection or him being angry or something cuz everytime he looks at me his expression looks mad <img src="http://www.lankalove.com/yabbfiles/Templates/Forum/default/angry.gif" border="0" alt="Angry" />, sad <img src="http://www.lankalove.com/yabbfiles/Templates/Forum/default/sad.gif" border="0" alt="Sad" />, confused <img src="http://www.lankalove.com/yabbfiles/Templates/Forum/default/undecided.gif" border="0" alt="Undecided" />. even tho feel he has moved on despite what i did, i haven't i can't stop thinking about me and him and i really want closure with him, to atleast be his bestfriend like we used to before all this happened, even tho i still have feelings for him, or atleast be able to acknowledge eachother when we cross paths. i don't know what to do...any advice?? <img src="http://www.lankalove.com/yabbfiles/Templates/Forum/default/cry.gif" border="0" alt="Cry" /> http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1332203295/0#0 Ask! 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How can I kick them out? I know they have nowhere else to go, but they make me wanna scream. And if I day anything to her about her kids she insults the way I choose to raise mine, by pouting them in daycare so I can work to support them. She thinks that once you have a kid its a disability, and you can't do anything and stay home living off food stamps and welfare. I want them out of my life. I just wish I knew this before we established our life together. He need to get of his sisters and focus more on his kids. Writing this I'm getting more irritated. Its midnight and the kid are still up. 5, 3, and 2 year old. I put my kids to bed at 830, do I don't see why she can't do the same. <img src="http://www.lankalove.com/yabbfiles/Templates/Forum/default/undecided.gif" border="0" alt="Undecided" /> http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1100820065/1#1 Ask! 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