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10 most Recent Topics - Ask! Advice :: LankaLove.com http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl - Ask! Advice :: LankaLove.com en-us Ask! Advice :: LankaLove.com Tue, 07 Sep 2010 13:19:24 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss 30 Love Quotes - Lost Love http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1101089716/10#10 Ask! Advice :: LankaLove.com/Love Quotes http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1101089716/10#10 Quote: <div class="quote" style="width: 90%; overflow: auto;">[/color] <img src="http://www.lankalove.com/yabbfiles/Templates/Forum/default/embarassed.gif" border="0" alt="Embarrassed" /> ??? <img src="http://www.lankalove.com/yabbfiles/Templates/Forum/default/cry.gif" border="0" alt="Cry" /> """the hardest part is not losing someone you loved so much but its holding on to something that wasn't there at all''' ''''when two hearts are meant to be no matter how long it takes, no matter how far they go, no matter how tough it seems, time will bring them together to share a life called forever'''' ''''its hard to go on living while loving someone secretly, it hurts to see the one you love so happy with someone else..but the most painful thing about hidden love is that it never fades away'''' '''you can hide the pain and make others believed that you can move on, but you can never deny to yourself that the person who has failed and hurt you, is still the same person you'll always choose to love''' '''isn't it sad that when you have so much pain in your heart and the only person who can stop you from crying is the same person who made you cry''' '''all things in life are not meant to last; things change and so as people do, so learn to live and let go''' '''you deserve to be happy not in the arms of someone who keeps you waiting but in the arms of someone who will take you now and will love you forever''' '''love is not how much you can get but how much you can give, its not about giving up but holding on, not about how you say iloveyou but how you prove its meaning'''' '''never be afraid to say iloveyou to the one you love, for when you are ready it maybe too late, the one you love may have found the comfort of hearing it from someone else''' [/font][font=Verdana][font=Verdana][/font][color=Red] </div> [color=Purple][/color] Ask! Advice - No time http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1142388820/0#0 Ask! Advice :: LankaLove.com/Ask! Advice http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1142388820/0#0 I have a boy friend, who have no time for me, except when he want to date.. what should I do, do he really love me or just using me.. <img src="http://www.lankalove.com/yabbfiles/Templates/Forum/default/angry.gif" border="0" alt="Angry" /> Ask! Advice - Things that u can do for a change in a relationshi http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1140963648/2#2 Ask! Advice :: LankaLove.com/Ask! Advice http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1140963648/2#2 1.   Well.. I sometimes buy a small gift, waits till she takes off to work and put some notes around the house giving clues to the next hidden note.... before I go to work.. Works like a charm... Ask! Advice - Help me get this Exboyfriend Monkey Off of my back http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1142102995/1#1 Ask! Advice :: LankaLove.com/Ask! Advice http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1142102995/1#1    He broke up with you atleast three years ago and hasn't made any contact with you until now? The first contact after atleast 3 years is based upon a complete lie of him misrepresenting himself so you would read the Email?     Do yourself a favor and quit thinking about him and move on. I think he wants something from you and he will end up parting ways with you again once his itch got scratched. Ask! Advice - Need help fast http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1141936425/1#1 Ask! Advice :: LankaLove.com/Ask! Advice http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1141936425/1#1 #1 He likes you and is nervous that he is going to say something that will make him look like a dork, so he plays it safe and says "Hi" then leaves while the going is good. #2 He is courteous to you, but is not interested and leaves before you get the wrong idea and think he is interested. #3 He likes another girl and he doesn't stay to socialize with you because it would make her think that he wasn't interested in her.  I presume that you already know for sure that he is a single person?  What are the circumstances that you keep bumping into him? Is he a coworker? Schoolmate? Is he part of a group of friends that you bump into while everyone is out and about on the weekend?  If you are worried about rejection then perhaps this idea may be helpful. Pick out a movie that you would like to see and one that he may like, then the next time you see him start a casual conversation then mention that you have really been wanting to see the movie. You could say that you haven't seen it yet because you don't like seeing that type of movie by yourself. Then smile at him and maybe give him a lil wink or something too? See how he reacts to that. If he seems interested in the topic then that's a good thing.  If the guy takes off without offering to take you then he is not interested or is a dumbass and wouldn't know a gold coin if it fly out of the Heavens and smacked him in the forehead.  I'm taking a wild guess here that you are somewhat reserved and not extremely outgoing. If you are in a group of friends, I get the impression that you are the quieter one that listens to everyone else talking.  I also get the impression that you are generally honest and loyal.  I think you are self conscience and tend to worry what other people think.  To me all of those qualities are desirable.    Life is to short! The only person in life that you have to impress is yourself because that is who you have to live with.  If you asked him for that coffee and he declined, I say his loss! so don't worry about it.   Everyone can't be Everyone’s type in the world. Everyone has different tastes, so even if someone got rejected, it doesn't mean that they aren't desirable.             I'm curious on the outcome!.. Take care.. Matt       Ask! Advice - Fat BUrner http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1136864797/1#1 Ask! Advice :: LankaLove.com/Ask! Advice http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1136864797/1#1   If you buy some "Magic Beans" from a dude out of the back of his pickup truck, don't be surprised if you don't get a giant stalk that leads you to a gold laying goose from the heavens above.  My point is that if you eat healthy in the correct portions and exercise, then you will achieve the goal that you are trying to reach.  There is no fat burning pill or powder that can compete with that.                           Regards.. Matt Ask! Advice - Are We Dating or Not? http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1141214527/3#3 Ask! Advice :: LankaLove.com/Ask! Advice http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1141214527/3#3   Hiya Jasmine     You could just out right ask him where he feels the relationship is at and ask him to define it.   If his answer is that he likes you alot but still isn't over his ex and wants to take things slow, I think that is a bullsh*t answer. That is the kind of answer you give to someone to string them along. He may just like the fact that he can play the field and keep all his female friends and have complete freedom while at the same time have you somewhat wrapped around his finger.  If he is not over his ex by now then no amount of time will ever change that and you will never fill her shoes because he never fell out of love with her. You don't need that! Who the heck wants to be around some dude when every time you want to move forward in life with him, he coughs up that he isn't able to because he is still dealing with his precious feelings of his ex gf.   Like I said before, I think he is just having his cake and eating it too. He can go out with you and have his fun and use the " oh I'm not over my ex" so he can remain single and keep all his female friends and have no commitment to you or anyone else.  As far as him getting pissy or jealous about you bringing up your ex bf's, I think that is a normal guy response.  He is sitting across the table from you while you sit there and you are thinking about some other guy and wanting to talk about it. I would be some what annoyed just in the fact that you would rather think about someone other guy as I was trying to spend my time with you. I have been annoyed like that and I had absolutally no romantic interest in the woman that was talking with me about it.  Men have to much testosterone ! <img src="http://www.lankalove.com/yabbfiles/Templates/Forum/default/smiley.gif" border="0" alt="Smiley" />  Just do like I said earlier and just out right ask him where he feels the relationship is at and ask him to define it.    If you two have been hanging out almost daily for a few months and he is still showing disinterest into commiting to you for whatever reasons "including not being over his ex", then I think you are getting strung along.    Let me know what his response is after you ask him to define your relationship.      I could use some advice also, if you are in the mood to hear me out, let me know..    Thanks.. Matthew     Ask! Advice - NEED ADVICE ON RELATIONSHIP.. PLZ READ http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1139306445/2#2 Ask! Advice :: LankaLove.com/Ask! Advice http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1139306445/2#2  I agree with Sofia's advice. It seems like he enjoys pretending he is a man without earning any of that title.  It sounds like he sponges off you for sex and a place to live and wants to reap all the benefits of having a family without any of the devotion.  I think you and your daughter deserve better then to be with someone that treats you like their mother and wont commit or work toward making the home to be as wonderful as possible.                       Regards.. Matthew Ask! Advice - i need some advice people!! http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1138756080/3#3 Ask! Advice :: LankaLove.com/Ask! Advice http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1138756080/3#3 Hi Jessica   You didn't mention your age.     I don't think it makes much of a difference if you were having intercourse with him or not when she walked in on the both of you topless. I seriously doubt that the both of you were comparing nipples sizes with each other for a school project. I am sure that you both were kissing and hugging while half naked and even though that is not actual intercourse, It was sure the beginning stages for it!  I don't have magical advice for you. I would calmly sit with your grandmother and explain to her that it is your boyfriend of 3 months and you are not actively having intercourse with him but sometimes you both like hugging each other topless while kissing because it makes you feel closer to him. I wouldn't say any more about it to her and when your parents get back I suggest you ask them to both sit because you wanted to discuss something with them. I think that you should tell them what happened exactly and what they should expect from you in the future. I think they will respect you more if you approach them first.  On a separate note, I sure hope you will use condoms to help prevent yourself from getting sick or surprised with a pregnancy.  It only takes one time of you saying to yourself "It will be alright just once" for your whole world to change in a very horrible way.    I know I know, more info than you wanted.                            Good fortunes to you..  Regards.. Matt Ask! Advice - Really Confused http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1135654569/2#2 Ask! Advice :: LankaLove.com/Ask! Advice http://www.lankalove.com/cgi-bin/ask/yabb/YaBB.pl?num=1135654569/2#2 You state that you broke up with him yet still associated and continued having sexual intercourse with him. You sure are jerking him around. You stay in his life just enough to keep him from moving on. It sounds like you wanted to date other people and have fun and go back to him at the times you felt like it. He obviously cares for you and this is why he put up with it. You stay in his life just enough so that he can't fully commit to the woman that he is with now because he still feels there is a chance that you will want him back. If you care about him at all, let him go and let him have his happiness. For the record the definition of letting him go involves you not associating, contacting, writing, calling or having sex with him.